Do You Know Why Women Value Relationships and Men Value to the Work ?

Women Relationships:
Modern society is a mere blip on the screen of human evolution. Hundreds of thousands of years 

of living in traditional roles has left modern men and women with brain circuitry that causes most

 of our relationship problems and misunderstandings.

Men have always defined themselves by their work and accomplishments and women define their

 own self-worth by the quality of their relationships. A man is a lunch-chaser and problem solver - 

this had to be his priority for survival. 

A woman is a nest-defender - her role was to ensure survival of the next generation. All the studies

conducted on male and female values in the 1990s continued to show that 70%-80% of men 

everywhere still say that the most important part of their lives is their work, and 70%-80% of 

women  say the most important priority is their families. As a consequence,

If a woman is unhappy in her

relationships, she can't concentrate

on her work. If a man is unhappy at

work he can't focus on his relationships.

Under stress or pressure, a woman sees spending time talking with her man as a reward, but a man 

sees it as an interference in his problem-solving process. 

She wants to talk and cuddle, and he wants to watch the football. To a woman, he seems uncaring 

and disinterested and a man sees her as annoying or pedantic.

These perceptions are the reflections of the different organization and priorities of their brains.

 This is  why a woman always says that the relationship seems more important to her that it

 does to him - it is.

Understanding this difference will take the pressure off you and your partner, and you will 

not judge each other's behavior harshly.

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